Begin privately
Start with a guided conversation — thoughtful questions that help when it's hard to know where to begin — or with a blank memorial. Everything lives in a private draft that only you can see.
Altar helps your family gather the stories, photographs, sayings, and traditions that made someone's life their own — and shape them into a living memorial you can share when it feels right.
Every memorial begins private. Your family decides what becomes public — and when.
More than dates and photographs
The saying everyone still repeats. The recipe nobody wrote down. The song that meant Sunday morning. These are the details a family remembers — and the ones most easily lost. Altar gives them a place to live, together, with the people and places they belong to.
An obituary records what happened. A family archive holds who someone was.
How it works
You don't need everything ready, and you don't need to do it alone. A memorial takes shape over time — at your family's pace.
Start with a guided conversation — thoughtful questions that help when it's hard to know where to begin — or with a blank memorial. Everything lives in a private draft that only you can see.
Share one link — the Memory Capture Kit — and the people who knew different chapters of their life can add stories, photos, and sayings in minutes. No accounts needed, in English or Spanish.
Every contribution comes to you first. Keep some memories just for the family, include the ones that belong, and publish the memorial when it feels right.
The Memory Capture Kit
Your sister remembers the kitchen. An old friend remembers the jokes. The neighbor remembers the roses. The Memory Capture Kit is a simple link you share with the people who loved them — each adds what only they carry, before it fades.
See it for yourself
In memory of
1920 – 1998
See how one family gathered stories, photographs, and shared tributes into a memorial that keeps growing.
View Public Memorial →Why Altar
Go beyond a tribute page. Keep the stories, relationships, traditions, and keepsakes that a list of dates could never hold.
Invite the people who knew different chapters of their life. Each one adds memories you couldn't have gathered alone.
Gentle prompts and AI help carry you past the blank page — while every word and every decision stays with your family.
The memorial takes shape in a private studio. Share it with the family first, and publish only when it feels right.
Some families choose to share their memorial with everyone who loved them — and with the world. Visit one to see what yours could become.
Building a memorial is free and private, for as long as you need. When you're ready to share it, a single payment publishes it — no subscriptions, and a 30-day refund if it isn't right.
You don't need everything ready. A single story, a photograph, a saying — that's enough to start. Begin privately, gather the family, and shape something that lasts.
Altar is a Memory Studio — a private place where a family gathers the stories, photographs, sayings, and traditions of someone they love, and shapes them into a living memorial. It's more than an obituary or a tribute page: it's a family archive that can keep growing.
Create a free account, then Begin the Memory Studio with a guided conversation — gentle questions that help you remember — or start from a blank memorial. You can begin with a single story and add more whenever you're ready.
No. Most families begin with one or two memories. The memorial stays in a private draft while you gather more, and there's no deadline — you move at your own pace.
Yes. Every memorial begins as a private draft that only you can see. You decide if and when it becomes public, and you can change your mind later.
Yes. You share one link — the Memory Capture Kit — and the people who knew them can add stories, photos, and sayings in a few minutes, without creating an account. Everything they share comes to you first: you choose what becomes part of the memorial and what stays private.
The AI helps you begin: it asks thoughtful questions, keeps the conversation going when the page feels blank, and helps organize what your family shares. It works from what you tell it — it doesn't decide what a life meant, and nothing is published without your review. The memorial's voice stays your family's.
Building a memorial is free, private, and untimed. When you're ready to share it publicly, a one-time payment publishes it — no subscription. There's a 30-day refund if it isn't right. See pricing for details.
AR is one optional way a memorial can be experienced — the heart of Altar is the memorial your family builds together. You can create something meaningful without ever touching AR.
The site is in English today, and memories can be contributed in English or Spanish — the Memory Capture Kit welcomes both, so loved ones can write the way they remember.